Free Parenting Programme

      

Hi Everyone and a very Happy New Year to you all!

I must say that I like New Year and always feel that it is a time that I can really start as I mean to go on and make some positive changes. I am really looking forward to helping more parent's this year who would love to improve their children's behaviour because it is my passion and I know how easy it can be..

So with all the January sales around and to kick start the New Year I have decided to have a sale myself, but with 100% off, it's better than any shop sale that I know.

I am offering TWO FREE SPACES on my Parent's Guide to Children's Behaviour Online Programme.  If you would like to TRANSFORM your child's behaviour, all you have to do is to send me an email childbehaviour@aol.com telling me why you would like to take part and on Monday 10th January I will choose two parent's to work directly with me for 4 weeks.

Here are some of the things that you will discover from my 4 week child behaviour programme

---Why children behave the way that they do including the common things parent’s do that make their children’s behaviour worse so that you can avoid them.

---A step by step guide of exactly how to improve your child’s behaviour.

---How to reduce the stress of unwanted behaviour and have more fun together as a family.

---How to help your child to reach their full potential, be happier and more confident

Plus you will have other bonuses and free email support directly from me, to help you to get from where you are to where you want to be with your children.

Please email me as soon as you can and feel free to share this with your friends..

Best wishes

Ruth Edensor

childbehaviour@aol.com



 

6 Massive reasons not to criticise your children

‘Don’t expect troubles as they have a tendency not to disappoint’

Napoleon Hill

6 massive reasons not to criticise your children!

Have you ever been critical of your children in the hope that you will get them to behave the way you want them to? I saw this in action the other day when a mother was in the shops with her children and she shouted at her son saying, ‘What did you do that for? Can’t you see everyone looking at you thinking how horrible you are’?

Being critical just seems to be universally accepted within our society and yes we all must have done it and certainly been on the receiving end of it, yet if people gave some thought to just how damaging criticism is, I am sure more people would think twice about doing it. At least I hope so.

6 reasons not to criticise your children;

1 Being critical of children can lead to long term emotional damage, and can be the cause of phobias, compulsive behaviours, inferiority complexes, nervousness and amongst other things, cause children to be self conscious.

2 Children who are perpetually criticised are likely to grow up afraid to use their initiative, be self critical, lack ambition and have little confidence in their own abilities and self worth.

3 Being critical is negative and all negative thoughts and actions attract negative thoughts and actions back

4 Criticism will not bring out the best in our children, or encourage a loving affectionate relationship, but it will make them feel resentful

5 They are likely to grow up very critical of others particularly behind their back and blame others for their mistakes, making them reluctant to learn from their own mistakes.

6 Children may grow up to be over extravagant, over spending to try to feel as good or better than other people.

You can see that children growing up with these sorts of emotions and hangups are going to find true happiness very hard to find, Children are also likely to misbehave as a reaction to the negativity that they feel.

You may find yourself justifying your criticism by saying things such as ‘Yes but he was behaving really badly’. Yet if we remember it is always destructive to be critical and that it blocks us from getting what we want we may think better of it.

So what can you do instead? go to http://tinyurl.com/yds3gqq

Ruth xxxxx